Today I embarked on a journey worthy of "The Story of O". I want to chronicle each moment of this. It has already changed me profoundly.

Lately I have been bored with my relationships with men. I find the interaction to be very "vanilla". For some time now I've wanted to try new things, but wasn't comfortable exploring those avenues with the men that I knew. Then I met HIM. We hit it off right away and immediately started a physical relationship. When I asked him what he expected of this relationship he backed off. I was confused. Little by little I learned about him. As I was exploring the alternative lifestyles of BDSM, I didn't realize that he had been a member of that community for a long time. He was the man I had been looking for all along. I asked him one day about shopping for a new vibrator and that managed to snowball into finding out that he was a member of the same websites I had been exploring. I realized that I wanted this man to be my very first Dom. I wanted him to make me submit to his every whim. Just the sound of his voice makes me want to do whatever he wants of me. Over the IM tonight, we had the following conversation about masturbating on webcam: (edited for inconsequential content)

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:11:05 PM): I like when you watch me.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:11:50 PM): me, or anyone?????? don't be careful here, be honest....it's a test....

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:12:58 PM): Not just anyone. It's exciting that there have been so many people at one time, but it's so much different when it's someone you know. Even more exciting.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:13:57 PM): would you do that for a live audience of people you don't know???

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:14:09 PM): Sure. Why not?

Dom (8/22/2006 11:14:19 PM): good answer!!!

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:14:50 PM): But like I said...it's exciting to have 200 people watching, but I'm more excited when it's just one that I know....you. I can picture you - I know you.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:17:06 PM): I like that.....one of my rules......no underwear in public, only outerwear.......only underwear in private.......whatever your comfortable in at home with others around, including family....

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:17:25 PM): So you are a dom?

Dom (8/22/2006 11:17:37 PM): you have to ask?

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:17:53 PM): I only wear underwear to work. I was 99.9% sure. I have to tell you something though. I really do like you and value your friendship. I like spending time with you - very much. But the very sound of your voice makes me crazy. More than crazy.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:21:31 PM): Crazy???? that struck a curious cord.....explain....crazy makes you nuts or crazy takes your breath away?

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:22:11 PM): Makes me weak. Makes me want to do whatever you want me to do. Your whisper in my ear makes me wet.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:24:04 PM): You do realize you are taking this to the next level don't you.....I need you to be sure you know what your getting into.........that's why I keep saying/asking how far are you willing to go?????

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:24:29 PM): What level are you speaking of? You can speak plainly to me

Dom (8/22/2006 11:25:03 PM): Ever see the movie 'The Secretary' with James Spader I think?

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:25:08 PM): No Should I rent it?

Dom (8/22/2006 11:25:50 PM): Rent it then we'll talk more about the next level. If you can't find it, let me know....I'll try to get you a copy....

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:27:10 PM): I think I understand where you're going with this.... I do know what I am asking of you. I wasn't sure you'd be willing. I've been contacted by several doms over the last few days.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:32:35 PM): Then let me tell you a little about me.......I will flirt in front of you....sometimes with you.....sometimes not.... I will hug and kiss in front of you.....again, sometimes with you, sometimes not.....I will NOT have sex with anyone but you, unless you are present and are ok with it.....And may demand the same of you......I will not humiliate you openly unless I know no-one will know what is going on but you....I might do so in private to show someone else what I mean to you......should I go on???

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:33:03 PM): yes.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:39:02 PM): You will be ready for sex at all times, with me or whoever I say...I will not say anyone who we have not talked about previously and agreed to...but they may not always be male....and there may not always be only one....sometimes there won't be any sex, you will just be on display...sometimes you will know who and when...sometimes not....sometimes you will be able to see, sometimes you may be blindfolded, gagged, or bound...there will always be a safe word that you can say that will be my cue to stop EVERYTHING and remove you from whatever situation we are in.....still want more???

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:40:26 PM): Yes. Am I to understand that if I accept these terms that I will be subjected to all and any of this immediately?

Dom (8/22/2006 11:41:18 PM): No. I think you need some training...an acclaimation period so to speak....

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:41:48 PM): OK. That makes me feel a little more comfortable. I have done none of this before. I need to know what is expected of me

Dom (8/22/2006 11:45:48 PM): I will do my best to make sure you know BEFORE you need to. But you need to also know there will be consequences for inappropriate behavior or violations of the rules.....and I get to decide when and where.....may be right away, may be later, may be in public, may be in private...I may give you the option, but if you choose later in private on a regular basis, the punishment may be a bit more intense......

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:46:31 PM): OK.

Dom (8/22/2006 11:47:24 PM): So again I have to ask.....how far are you willing to go??

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:49:05 PM): I had hoped you would accept me. I am understandably nervous, but am ready and willing. What must I provide for you for now?

Dom (8/22/2006 11:52:38 PM): Nothing now....we will start slowly....simple rules to follow...maybe a sexual request or two....when I think you are ready they will become orders......punishments will be light and not intended to embarrass you for now......ready to start?

NoviceSub (8/22/2006 11:52:49 PM): Yes.

Dom (8/23/2006 12:01:42 AM): Ok....for starters.....find out how much a nipple piercing is and how to care for one......then find a lifestyle club that would be suitable for you to show it off in....we will talk about this again in less than a week. I am not saying you will get one. But now the thought is planted. Keep your pussy clean shaven. You can masturbate as often as you wish, and in front of your cam if you want. But you will send me a text EVERY time you do, and when you cum, and when I am not there or can't watch. Understand?

NoviceSub (8/23/2006 12:02:35 AM): Yes.
pussy clean shaven - all hair gone?

Dom (8/23/2006 12:05:17 AM): All hair from the top of your slit down.....

NoviceSub (8/23/2006 12:05:43 AM): Done

Dom (8/23/2006 12:07:56 AM): If you want to keep the rest, or make pretty decorations of it you can. I am going to bed now. The thought of fucking your mouth has made me hard and I think I am going to jerk off. G'night you. Pleasant dreams.....

I've already had to text him to let him know I had to masturbate. I have been wide awake ever since. I am both terrified and excited all at the same time. The very idea of being at this man's feet is....intoxicating. I've been a strong woman my whole life and have proven myself. I no longer have anything to prove. I'm ready to give myself over. I know you may not understand, but this is powerful in it's own right.

Care to follow me on this journey?

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